What does freedom mean to you?
Posted on Jun 18th, 2009
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This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for June 18, 2009:
While waiting for the bus in the rain/drizzle tonight, I met a young man, Cameron, who was in a wheel chair. He rolled up and greeted me with a hearty, hello how are you? and I replied I'm well and cold and how are you? and we proceded to talk about the weather and personal temperature preferences. He said he stays warmer because he doesn't have any legs to lose all his body heat for him. We talked while waiting for the bus of this and that. He's visiting a family member around here and thinks he might move here. He thinks we have a great bus system; said it was really nice to be somewhere where it's pretty easy to get around without a car. When the bus came he said, "cool it's one of those with the lift", but then the lift was broken and the bus driver apologized profusely and Cameron didn't bat an eye, he just said, "no problem" and hoisted himself onto the bus and dragged the chair up the stairs behind him.
I don't know how Cameron lost his legs, but I do know that what he lacks in apendages he makes up for in charm, personality, optimism, friendliness. I've been thinking about him ever since we parted ways. He said he was talking with a bunch of folks earlier in the day who are riding their bikes all around Colorado in an event called "Ride the Rockies". He thinks he'll join them next year.
So how does this all relate to the question of freedom. Cameron seems free to me. Free from bitterness or self-pity. He was just one of the most friendly people I've met in a long time. He inspired me.
He made me think of that quote, "I complained I had no shoes until I met a man who had no feet." He couldn't have been more than 25. He has his whole life ahead of him. I don't know what happened to his legs, but I can see he isn't feeling sorry for himself about it. He's just living his life and spreading a little sunshine wherever he goes. That's a kind of freedom.
I don't know how Cameron lost his legs, but I do know that what he lacks in apendages he makes up for in charm, personality, optimism, friendliness. I've been thinking about him ever since we parted ways. He said he was talking with a bunch of folks earlier in the day who are riding their bikes all around Colorado in an event called "Ride the Rockies". He thinks he'll join them next year.
So how does this all relate to the question of freedom. Cameron seems free to me. Free from bitterness or self-pity. He was just one of the most friendly people I've met in a long time. He inspired me.
He made me think of that quote, "I complained I had no shoes until I met a man who had no feet." He couldn't have been more than 25. He has his whole life ahead of him. I don't know what happened to his legs, but I can see he isn't feeling sorry for himself about it. He's just living his life and spreading a little sunshine wherever he goes. That's a kind of freedom.

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a very wonderful kind of freedom. i feel lifted up and I haven't even met him!
That story made the blooms burst forth on all the flowers in my soul's garden! Dawn, you hit it smack dab!
That is the secret - to enjoy life no matter what your circumstances. Buddhism teaches that is dissatisfaction that causes all the suffering in our lives. Think of all the people who complain about inconsequential stuff -” I couldn't find a parking space, someone cut me of in traffic, nothing to eat in the fridge “(HA!)
It is interesting just to watch and listen to the stupid stuff people complain and carry on about.
what a great story.
Thank you, Dawn. I liked this as well. It's our state of mind, rather than our circumstances, so often, that makes the ultimate difference. Hurray for spreading sunshine and being free.
Dawn, Thank you so much for this. I came on here tonight to divert my hamster brain from chewing on itself, because I'm a bit nervous about going back to school after more than twenty years to study something which I'd like very much to succeed at… . art. And, then I read this. Obstacles are in the mind of the beholder. I appreciate you reminding me of that this evening. Love, Otter
I love you all. thank you for stopping by. I saw Cameron again just two days ago. I was pedaling a pedicab, hauling passengers around Aspen. Cameron was gettin off a bus, headed to the Chocolate Factory he said. and then I saw him flying in his chair, here and there all around the town. I accused him of following me, jokingly. He didn't smile or laugh. I felt sad. it's amazing how others' can affect our perspective. but Cameron should be allowed his somber times, like the rest of us, no?
ah life…….. life.